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In this book, we will travel through time, emotions and inner fog together to find the answer that belongs to you.
The Power of Metaphor: Why the 'Three Holes' Touch the Heart Strings of Modern People
Each of us has had the experience of making a decision in a casual moment without realizing that it may be an opportunity for fate to present. Just as the seemingly simple metaphor of "three holes" reveals, many important turns are often hidden in the ordinary.
When we are in a high-speed social environment, our attention becomes fragmented and we habitually skip some seemingly insignificant information flow. The story of "Three Hole" reminds us to slow down and learn to listen to our inner voices, so as to find those windows of opportunity that are slipping away.
The First Hole: Ignored Tiny Signals and Future Potential
Many times, change does not come with a bang, but quietly knocks on our door. Perhaps an unfamiliar email, a casual conversation, or even an obscure idea that pops into your head… these could be the first keys to a new chapter.
There was such a young man who heard two strangers next to him discussing entrepreneurial projects while queuing in a cafe. He plucked up the courage to participate in the chat, but he did not expect to get the job opportunity he dreamed. This kind of example tells us that the more low-key existence, the more likely it is to contain great energy, and only a pair of good at discovering eyes will light them up.
The second hole: the invisible cost of hesitation and delay
If it is a pity to miss, then it is even more regrettable to give up because of your own hesitation. Psychological research has shown that humans are naturally inclined to maintain the status quo rather than risk the unknown, and this instinct has sometimes become the biggest enemy of progress.
As you stand at a crossroads and repeatedly weigh the pros and cons, ask yourself, "If you don't make a decision now, what difference will it make to look back at today's situation in five years?" This question may not provide the perfect answer immediately, but it is enough to prompt you to take a brave step out of the state of standing still.
The third hole: self-dialogue after missing and the meaning of starting again
No one can guarantee that every decision is the right direction. The real test of wisdom is how to deal with the mistakes or losses that have already occurred. Instead of indulging in remorse, treat it as a valuable learning journey.
Try to record the most cherished part of each memory and the room for improvement. You will find that the so-called failure is actually just another form of growth catalyst. As one interviewee said, "it is because I have fallen that I know how to walk more steadily and faster."
Reinventing Your Choice Mechanisms: A Key Step in Building a Sensitive Perception System
Want to better grasp the future? Then you need to start training your prediction ability and reaction speed from today. It is recommended to set up a daily review system to review whether there are unused value points behind all the big and small affairs of the day;
It is more important to cultivate an open and inclusive mindset and accept the fact that uncertainty is the norm in life itself. Only those who understand their own limitations and are willing to break out of their comfort zone can truly succeed in strategizing thousands of miles away.
Live Before the Future: Make Every Choice Go Where You Want to Go
imagine, if you can foresee what tomorrow will look like in advance, will you repeat the same mistakes you made yesterday? Although there is no time machine in the real world to travel between, we can still gradually approach the ideal appearance in our hearts through rational planning and continuous efforts.
After reading this book, I hope you will not only gain knowledge itself, but also establish a set of exclusive life navigation system. No matter how tortuous and complicated the road ahead is, you can firmly believe and move forward bravely and always walk on the right track.